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Hey! Me and my boyfriend are as safe as can be when we have sex (correctly used condoms with spermicide, and pulling out correctly) but I'm still experiencing hysterical pregnancies. My period is normal and I've taken countless pregnancy tests but the thoughts of "what if" won't go away. Do you have any ideas as to how to stop hysterical pregnancies?
Anonymous
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Perhaps going on a type of birth control could alleviate the fear! I know I had the anxiety for a little while and then when I got an IUD and knew the statistics it took away that fear. 
If you are being as safe as you say, you really shouldn’t worry too much. If you really are getting hysterical after every time you have sex, it may be an underlying problem that is making you feel that way. When you have anxiety or are super stressed out that can happen. 

-Lily 


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I'm afraid using a vibrator will make me less sensitive over time?? I don't use one often but I feel like every time I do, I'm lea sensitive afterwards.
Anonymous
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No it won’t make you less sensitive over time, however, as you’ve noticed it can make you less sensitive during a session! 

Don’t worry though, play on! 

-Mo 


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What's a good way to give a girl oral? I know, every girl is different, but I just need a "how to" version for beginners. Thank you :)
Anonymous

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So everytime my boyfriend goes down on me, he tells me i taste sour. He doesn't say it in a mean or hurtful way. He never protests or refuses to do it but still, it's embarrassing as hell to hear. I went to the gyno about it and she said I'm all clear on stds or infections. What is causing this sourness downstairs then? I shower twice daily and clean my little lady? Hearing that turns me off so much that it's ruining my sexual life.
Anonymous
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So science doesn’t completely back this up but folks swear by (and i do too) certain foods and/or drinks impacting your taste. I know I taste a little more sour if I’m dehydrated or if i’ve eaten certain foods. Generally foods that make your pee smell strong also makes you taste more sour. 

On the flip side, some foods or drinks i swear by to make me taste sweeter are pineapples, cranberries, honey, and just plain ole water. Folks also swear by this smoothie http://www.food.com/recipe/super-spunk-smoothie-211376

Try some things out and see how your body responds! Don’t be afraid to taste yourself so you can notice the difference. 

Hope this helps! 

-Mo


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Is it normal for my genital area to be a really dark brown/purple color? Im really pale skinned, but overweight, And now tgat Im losing weight my vulva skin is saggy and a dark color.. im only 20.
Anonymous
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Totally normal! Labia tend to be a little darker in color than surrounding area. You’re totally normal. If it changes color, however, perhaps seeing a healthcare professional would be advisable. 

-Lily 


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My boyfriend put his penis in me about 3 times but then finished by coming on my side. I missed my period but I'm always irregular due to stress and school. Should I be worried about being pregnant?
Anonymous
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Probably not. If you did not use any protection, there is a small chance of pregnancy from precum. 

-Lily 


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I'm in a relationship with a trans guy. When it comes to sex, he doesn't like to be touched which I totally and 100% respect. Sex feels very one-sided. This leads me to feel like I can't pleasure him or make him happy. How can I be more intimate with him? Do you have any suggestions that we can both feel satisfied in sex?
Anonymous
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Talk to him. Everyone is different and everyone’s likes and dislikes are different. Let him know how you’re feeling and start the conversation. Ask him which ways he likes to be touched, which touches make him feel intimate with you. 

That being said, has he told you he’s not satisfied in sex? Many folks are satisfied just by satisfying their partner. 

-Mo


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I have a question regarding whether or not I should take a pregnancy test. Me and my partner had been using condoms, but, one broke. Shortly after (about two or three days), I started my period, which was then a week or so early. As well as irregular. With the information provided, do you see it necessary for me to take a pregnancy test?
Anonymous
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Are you usually irregular? Was your period normal besides being a week early? If the answers to those are yes you can probably hold off on the pregnancy test for a while. 

-Mo


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relationship question, really frustrated. why does it bother me when my boyfriend talks about his hobbies & interests? it's not that i feel left out when he goes out & does them, it's just when he talks about them. i fake smile & listen but i really want to pull my hair out. he grew up very wealthy & is into motorcycles, surfing, luxury clothing etc, stuff i've never had the money to do in my life. i feel like he comes across pretentious & maybe i get jealous? how can i stop feeling this way?
Anonymous
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It sounds to me like maybe you’re picking up on class differences and that’s making you uncomfortable. You might not be getting jealous so much as you worry he doesn’t appreciate his privilege or the money he has. Talk to him about it and you might feel better! 

-Mo


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i used to think my vagina was relatively normal, but i see you get a lot of asks about labia minora and stuff, and i know you says all vaginas are different, but my labia minor is really tiny and not all too noticeable and i dont know if that's normal?? i'm only 15, so is there a chance i'm just not completely developed down there or is just a regular thing? do all vaginas have large/noticeable labia minoras?
Anonymous
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Nope! You shouldn’t worry. You are correct that your vulva may change as you continue puberty. But from what you’ve said, it sounds normal! 

-Mo