Anonymous asked: Im dry-humping-in-a-pool anon. There was no penetration and both of us were wearing swimsuits but i have no idea if he ejaculated. I shouldnt be worried right?
Correct. The likelihood of you being pregnant, even if he did ejaculate, is VERY VERY slim. Especially if you were in a chlorinated pool as the chemicals would kill the sperm cells.
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend wants to ejaculate inside me, but I'm not on the pill. Are there any ways we can protect ourselves without it?
If you are not going to use a condom or the pill, there really is no way to protect yourselves if he plans to ejaculate inside of you. This is hugely increased risk of STD’s and pregnancy. To reduce pregnancy, you could use the morning after pill but that really isn’t the best option. If possible, you should both get tested for STD’s to be sure on that end. Also if possible, you should go on some type of birth control.
Edit: I meant to say that if you don’t plan on using a condom or another method of birth control (such as the pill, nuva ring, depo shot, etc..) then you don’t really have any effective way to prevent pregnancy or STD’s.
Anonymous asked: I've read in several places that dry humping can't get a person pregnant, but I couldn't find the answer to if I could get pregnant from dry humping in a pool (cause since it's wet and stuff it might be a different situation). If the chances exist but it's really unlikely should i get a home pregnancy test either way? I dont take pills. Sorry if it's a dumb question, it's just that we dont have sex ed where I live. Also abortion here is illegal and I can't afford a child :( thanks a lot!
It is highly unlikely you are pregnant especially if there was no penetration, no ejaculation, and a possibility of clothing (swimsuit). If you are really worried, you can take a pregnancy test but it is most of likely not necessary.
Anonymous asked: Hey, I have a question. If someone attempts to have sex with you while you are asleep and you wake up in the process(still pretending you're asleep,) and do not say "no" or express any dis-consent(other than not moving or participating,) does it count as rape? What if the person knows you're awake now, though you were asleep when they started? Also, can a person have sexual tendencies, or actually engage in sex with another, while asleep? Like sleep-walking? Thank you so much for your time.
That is rape. If someone is penetrating you and you were not fully conscious (i.e not in a clear state of mind) it is rape. Not saying anything is NOT consent and thus rape. If the person knows your awake, that makes no difference. They still decided to violate your body. There is something called sexsomnia which is when people engage in sexual acts while asleep and don’t remember what occurred after they awaken. This is VERY rare. And it would be highly unlikely that both partners have the disorder.
Anonymous asked: Do the generic forms of emergency contraception have the same effectiveness as the brand names?
If they are the same medicine, generally yes.
Anonymous asked: Instead of just adding on comments to posts like "*not all women menstruate etcetc" why don't you just change the language of the post itself? Even if it's not yours, it's not exactly difficult to go in and change "women" to "people who menstruate" or whatever. People are going to get triggered whether or not you do add that little footnote. Just saying.
I’ve had debates about this before and footnotes were what was agreed upon before, so I guess it’s a good time to bring the subject up again and ask people. I’ll ask both on here and on the other tumblr. How do you prefer me dealing with gendered language in reblogs:
- delete the gendered language from posts and replace it with non gendered language
- put a strikethrough through the gendered language and add in non gendered language
- put a footnote on the post and tag it with gendered language or other tags (comment what tag I should use)
- some other method I’m not thinking of (comment method please!)
Anonymous asked: Hi, sorry for asking this here, but what's the book list mentioned in your most recent post on fuckyeahsexeducation?
Here’s my porn and book list!
Anonymous asked: hello!! i was wondering whether the best way to give a handjob would be with or without lube? like, bc of increased friction would it be slightly painful without or is it just as pleasurable? thank you!!
Depends on your partner but in general lube makes things better!
Anonymous asked: Don't know if you know how to answer this or not. But I haven't been with many girls, I'm a power bottom, and my gf, is always the top. She doesn't like to be fingered, or receive anything. How would she even get off??... Is it just me, a personal thing? What are Tops supposed to do? Does she not feel comfortable with me?
You should talk to her. Some people prefer not to be touched. some people receive sexual satisfaction from pleasing their partner(s). But only your gf can answer these questions for herself. You should talk to her about her sexual boundaries, likes, and dislikes etc!
Anonymous asked: Risks from digital rape?
I’m going to assume by digital you mean penetration from fingers.
Physical risks can include minor tears inside/outside of penetrated region, infection from dirty hands, minor risk of STDs depending on if these hands came in contact with geneitals infected and then touched you.
Psychological there can be many. Violation in any form is horrible and can cause many psychological problems. If this is something you are concerned about, you should talk to a professional or a trusted adult. Check out local universities for sexual assault centers as they have many resources available.
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